Custodial parents are poisoning innocent noncustodial parents and innocent children. While the children end up being diagnosed as suffering from post-traumatic stress disorder because of sexual abuse, instead of being diagnosed as suffering because of losing a beloved parent, the noncustodial parent ends up becoming one of the new American zombies, one of the walking dead.

falseallegations.com makes this suggestion: Form an association of PAS victims nationally of people like yourself.   That association, NAVPAS, will act as a depository for mementoes . . . of  things you wanted to say and give to your children but have not been allowed to.

Then . . . when you have exhausted all possible avenues in the courts and in the three-lettered agencies -- DSS, CPS, CFS -- and

• you STILL have not seen your children
 
• you must pay for child support
 
• you must provide health insurance, which pays more for fake unnecessary therapy every year to supposedly recover from events that never happened than it does for your kids' dental work
 
• you must pay for the so-called therapy, where they are being told
 
• to fear you
 
• to tell everyone who asks them that you hurt them
 
• to say that they don't want to see you ever again
 
• to play a game where you are arrested, handcuffed, and sent to jail
 
• to read special sexual-abuse comic books like Spiderman
 
• to attend sexual-abuse groups where children share horror stories, both true and false
 
• to testify against you in court so as to send you to prison for many years
  
  

The items will be the forbidden birthday cards, the forbidden Christmas cards, the forbidden Valentines, the forbidden baseball cap or video or tape or poster for their bedroom wall, the forbidden letters saying you love them and shall never forget them, the forbidden notes which say you await the day when they can phone or visit you on their own, the forbidden note with their grandparents' or aunt's or uncle's phone number on it, the forbidden diary you've kept of all the things you have dreamed of telling them.

The anonymous member will deliver with the items a cover letter which will say something like, "Your Daddy (or Mommy) does not know I'm delivering these to you. He/she left them in a special place where they could be taken care of in good condition. Your Daddy's (or Mommy's) friends have decided that today was a good day to give them to you. We know that he/she loves you and wants you to be happy and healthy and to enjoy the gifts and thoughts in this package. Love, A Friend"

To guard against you being held in contempt for violating a no-contact order, the NAVPAS member will deliver packages to, let's say, half a dozen kids affected by such orders by the SAME court.

And lastly, no fewer than a dozen NAVPAS members will show up at any contempt hearing.

Now it is YOUR turn to form the organization, take these suggestions and tear them apart and put in ideas on which there is a consensus. The ideas above are just that: ideas. They are not written in stone. The ideas are simply somewhere to start.  Now it's your turn to take the reins. You've been the butt of other people's bureaucratic power and need to control.  Well, it's your turn to take control.

NAVPAS can also begin to write uniform legislation for child support. NO child support if NO visitation.